Reading this I got one thing clear. Victims should get rid of shame. They should be deeply conscious and convinced that being the object of any kind of harassment makes you the victim of it never the culprit. It doesn't matter if you expose yourself unwillingly to it, because you ignore the local manners, or if you don't react forcefully to it , because you feel weak. You are always a victim, never the culprit. From this deep insight I think the force could rise in the victims to point with their finger the only culprit in harassment: the harasser.