Hi Roh, I never knew your father but get a little snippet of him from your heartfelt writing. I think it is really important to have that difficult conversation with our families early. It is through the sudden death of both my uncle in an accident and my grandpa, 5 weeks after a cancer diagnosis many years ago, that mum and dad wisely started to have that conversation. Some of their desires are very similar, whilst others have been vastly different but through it all, it has been a really positive experience for our family for the last 20 years. Thanks Roh for sharing.