Each suite can reflecta paradox of care partnering. For instance, "Inviting Grief" or"Discovering the Familiar". These organizing concepts can unleash thecreative imaginations of care partners or provide them with the outside instigationnecessary to have emotionally difficult conversations about loss, death,memory, and the unknown. At the same time, the cards can offer humorousinterludes, fun activities, or other bits of practical wisdom that let caregivers know they are not the only ones who have ever faced the complexchallenges of taking care of elders. Ideally, the cards could unleash thesocial inventiveness of both partners, build their resilience in the face ofdecline and introduce them to seriously fun new strategies for creativelyovercoming barriers. By building the capacity of both partners to respond toadversity ~ together ~ we would be enhancing the overall quality of life ofeveryone involved in the process of aging.