- I don't have much experience with death and until 2 years ago I still had all of my grandparents. This experience is completely different than my wife who has a large extended family and attended a funeral every year since middle school. However, two years ago my wife's grandmother passed away and that experience changed my perspective about dying.
It was a Friday morning and Mimi had a hard time breathing. She called an ambulance, was admired, and never left the ICU - passing away the following Monday. It was quick and with limited suffering even though it was in an ICU with tubes and incessant noises. All things considered - I would hope that when its my time I am able to pass as quickly as Mimi did. But what's interesting about this story isn't Mimi's dying experience alone. Down the hall Mimi's best friend and sister in-law, Bobbie - affectionately called BaaBaa, was dying at the same time.
Baabaa was admitted earlier in the week and it was thought to help her get better but once Mimi was admitted it became obvious that the hospital staff was there to make her comfortable- not help her to get well.
It was around lunch time on Monday and BaaBaa passed away. Mimi would have passed away within minutes of BaaBaa but my wife was breast feeding our youngest child at the time and it was time to feed him. Two hours after BaaBaa passed away so did Mimi. Family, best friends, and soul mates - not to be in this world without one another.