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death of my dear grandpa

After see my grandpa frighting with cancer for a year and after see he passed away, I have got new thought about live one.

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My grandpa was a passionate person. He was always warm and kind. He left home when he was 17 and build his life on his own without money in his pocket. he started with a farmer and manage study at the same time, he tried very hard to get himself into the big city and from there he went to university. After he married my grandma who was a "princess" from her family, he started his business life. He was always willing to learn and keep himself fit. At his age of 70, he got cancer which was a biggest shock our family. He does not smoke, does not drink, has no bad habit. However cancer still got him. It was late stage when we found out. After few operations, grandpa could not stay positive anymore. He knews what was coming. He became depressed, which was absolutely bad effort for sick person. He was a different person that I know. I realised from that time, his confidence became his own enemy. He was too confidence that he can win in this fright just like he fright his life before, but the reality broke him. 

Grandpa passed away after a year. we miss him. 

What is a provocation or insight that might inspire others during this challenge?

sometimes death is not the end, it teaches us lesson. the lessons are various. could be telling you don't waste time or could be telling you follow the rule. but my own experience is telling me, facing life or difficulties, don't be so upset or over excited. stay calm, things coming and going for reason. stay in a easy happy life is not bad than a dramatic life sometimes.


vivian (myself)

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