Families have the important task of finding and processing the legacy of the family and the older ones, to be able to find continuity and meaning after the loss of the beloved.
That could be an exiting challenge for the family as a whole, a playful activity, a ritual and an interesting task. It might involve passions, knowledge, stories, the creation of a book, a diary, activities together, boardgames, etc. To spark conversation and sharing.
Thos activities would highlight the legacy of the elder or ill person, and involve the whole family into discovering that legacy and finding continuity in future familiar plans.