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Overcome negative beliefs through PLAY

Having ADHD all my life left me open to a good deal of criticism and chastising for being "lazy" and "not meeting my potential," among other things. Connecting to the importance of play goes a long way to overcoming those voices in my head.

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Having ADHD all my life (it's a brain thing) and not having an explanation for the related challenges untilI was "old," left me open to a good deal of criticism and chastising for being "lazy" and "not meeting my potential," among other things. Feeling smart, but being told repeatedly that I was "not good enough" wore on me over time.  I felt that I was not really very smart and that I was not meeting my potential.  Thankfully, I was diagnosed and started working in my areas of power.  One of the consistent comments from friends was how much I liked to play.  One of the criticisms of my family was also how much I liked to play.  Valuing the opinions of my friends and enjoying the times we had playing together, I chose to focus more on this part of my character as a positive.  Not only have I become more happy, I am also more creative, energetic, and fun!  Connecting to the importance of play goes a long way to overcoming those voices in my head. Now I share this with others at PlayDHD!

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Photo of Nelson Peace

OMG!! This is certainly a shocking and a genuine Testimony..I visited a
forum here on the internet on the 20TH OF JUNE 2014, And i saw a
marvelous testimony of this powerful and great spell caster called
PRIEST AZIBA on the forum..I never believed it, because i never heard
nor learnt anything about magic before.. Not a soul would have been able
to influence me about magical spells, not until PRIEST AZIBA did it for
me and restored my marriage of 8 years back to me and brought my spouse
back to me in the same 24 hours just as i read on the internet..i was
truly astonished and shocked when my husband knelt down begging for
forgiveness and for me to accept him back.. I am really short of
expressions, and i don't know how much to convey my appreciation to you
PRIEST AZIBA you are a God sent to me and my entire family.. And now i
am a joyful woman once again.. here is his Email and WhatsApp contact below
* Email: priestazibasolutioncenter@gmail.com
*.Mobile:+2348100368288.......

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Hi Kirsten,

As Dyslectic I know what is to be "statistically different" too.

Our examples are needed to show then in creativity is not a about "be good enough" at level other thinks about.

"Feeling smart" - Hmm, may be you are one from these Twice Exceptional persons ->

Twice Exceptional: I am dyslectic (and I will be excellent designer)
http://www.openideo.com/open/creative-confidence/inspiration/twice-exceptioal-i-am-dyslectic-and-i-will-be-excelend-designer/

I Don't Believe in Genius - You are talented in MATHS (or JUGGLING)?
http://www.openideo.com/open/creative-confidence/inspiration/i-don-t-believe-in-genius-you-are-talented-in-maths-story/